control your destiny

Control your Destiny or someone else will. What an awesome title for a book - great book too. So here I sit - looking at my destiny wondering if I am controlling it very well. You see there are two things I have to balance. Family and Career. As an independant person, I think my career would be very different. I would have accomplished far more at this point. Funny thing is, having a family adds perspective. Is a phenomenal career really all that wonderful? If you don't have any other significant attachmants in your life then I am sure you would say that your career is who you are. Or at least - I used to. Now, I say my family is who I am. I am sure that things will come full circle and at some point in my life, my career will become a priority again but for now, I will try to make my family my focus.